Monday, March 16, 2009

Theories: Psychoanalytic, Psychosexual, Psychosocial, Cognitive Devepoment etc


Give me a cauldron
I will cook the books to broth
I will cook the THEORIES to magic potion

Give me a magic wand
I will stir the books to broth
I will stir the THEORIES to magic potion

With the magic potion
I will transform the devil to an angel
These are the very fabric of Child Psychology.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Teach Children accept and learn from mistakes

My observation:
As a foreigner living in Singapore for decade, I have noticed an aspect of the Singaporean culture that is very prevalent: It seems that mistakes are not acceptable. Perhaps of the KIASU traits generally.
Many parents I came across can be hard on the children for making mistakes in their schoolwork. I understand that the parents are trying to ensure that the children make the most of the education with their great expectation.
Unfortunately, their children would, as a result, grow up afraid of making wrong decisions or taking risks. Such an environment is not conducive to creative thinking, which is intuitive and often characterised by the philosophy of "learn as you go" and "trial and error".
What I thought if you want your children to be creative, give them the freedom to learn from their mistakes, instead of instilling in them the belief that errors can only lead to bad consequences.
Creative and spontaneous action may not always yield success, but the truly memorable achievements in life will always come from an unfettered mind that is free from the fear of failure.

Friday, March 13, 2009

Boundless Love


(Refer to http://trustchildren.blogspot.com/2009_03_01_archive.html). This post states of compassion, altruism, peace and of course the act of highest essential of human aspiration. Hence, dedicating the following to The Founder, caregivers, facilitators and folks from all walks of life whom renders unconditional love and support to School and all beloved children.

Boundless love as the sky
Boundless love as the ocean
Boundless love knows no colour
Boundless love knows no border

Let this boundless love pervades in every space
Let this boundless love spreads to nourish every heart
Let this great compassion suffuse in yours and mine hearts
Just like the LOVE of a mother for her children.

In YOUR name I ask and pray
GOD with your greatest grace
May all be free from suffering
Rewards them with peace, well, and wisdom.

from the desk of
Blessedmum